EA is giving Origin Access Basic for free, so you can try 10 hours of fifa for free: https://help.ea.com/en/help/account/login-verification-and-origin-access/
Legacy/stamina cheaters don't get banned because it isn't visible to EA and other players. Also you get much better team with draft cheating and get better ranking in WL even without cheating.
Crossing is part of football and counter for playing very narrow formation. It's called flanking in military strategies. Killing crossing they maked packing players in the box with narrow formation the only meta in the game, there is no counter to it (at least realistic one).
Even more annoying is weight in pounds. If you're playing on PC you can change units in /data/locale.ini file. New patch will overwrite this file with old default settings so you have to change it every time.