Farewell to Fifa 22

Heimokuoma
165 posts Has Potential To Be Special
edited July 2022
This is it. For few weeks I have had this feeling of emptiness when playing this release and realized this game doesn’t offer me the same joy and excitement I’m after.

I have always been a gamer who plays for relief and having rough few years and chronic anxiety after our boy died during the labour this game has helped alot. The cycle of the game plus therapy and medication mean I just don’t need this anymore. I know I might get too distracted of the game and play too much but I’m certain this will be my last release atleast for few years. Aswell as Fifa gives me comfort I aknowledge the amount of time I consume for all the little details isn’t healthy.

Fifa 22 has offered me a port to an other dimension and ways to fill my empty nights. It has also offered me lots of joy and experiences of achieving something - needless to say it’s all just digital. I have had pretty good last nine months and now I think it’s good time to let go as I have noticed I have played less and less and less. This season I have played maybe 15 games of rivals, one champs. qualif. and one champs finals.

What I will miss: This community and the help I have had and the feeling of belonging to some group (the worldwide covid-situation have isolated almost everyone to their homes). What I won’t miss: This community in it’s all toxicity. And I don’t mean just this forum but the rotten playerbase who you sometimes face. Thanks to all of you who have offered help and taught me to be better player!

My journey is over and I do of course also miss the development of my Ultimate team. Best (or worst) seasons I played over 90 games of rivals, reached Elite 1800-1900 when grinded and almost everytime 11 wins in champs (one time 14 and one time 9 wins). Sweated for two Icon Swaps and every night tried to make me or my team better. Got to 2,3 mil. without trading and just waiting for the next italian SBC. What’s amazing I had for almost the whole cycle some cards of Donnarumma, Zambrotta, Chiellini, Cannavaro, Spinazzola, Chiesa, Barella, Verratti, Insigne and Di Natale.

Here’s my journey through some pictures:
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Cheers to you all and have a good one! ✌🏻

Comments

  • Fifapayne
    7370 posts League Winner
    Sorry for your loss.
    Take care man.
  • RichT
    765 posts Semi-Pro
    Sorry to hear of your loss.

    If you are not enjoying it's not worth playing. Either stop playing, take a break or try playing differently.

    My frustration is this game has so much potential, but the developers seem stubborn carry on regardless and won't change too much when they get it wrong, this makes it hard to like. For me it's particularly bad this year.

    My interest 'is hanging by a thread and I don't plan to get next year's. Not falling for the false promises next edition.

  • abhreebhu_45
    15142 posts World Class
    edited July 2022
    All d best

    This is my last fifa too,n i will go out banging in september
  • Hans_Rheinhardt1
    262 posts Sunday League Hero
    Sorry for your loss bud. Nothing should take priority over life, health and loss.

    I though I was bad when I was diagnosed as clinically depressed in 2010, however I knew and still know, more serious things happen outside my world.

    The toxicity of community will hopefully fade one day but I doubt it. Maybe EA can manufacture a decent game, but again...I doubt it.

    Until then you take care, family and health first and foremost.
  • ohbuggerit
    161 posts Has Potential To Be Special
    Sorry for your loss. We lost 2 through miscarriage and that was painful enough, although we are grateful for our 1 healthy happy kid. I feel a lot like you and am still not sure whether to play 23. The game demands so many hours to keep up. Combine that with the bs from some in the community I am not sure it's worth it. I am waiting to see if ea address the issue of toxic behaviour. I think they could do much more to limit it through design and features. If I don't see any posts about it and ideas to reduce it then like you I am done.
  • McFandan
    2514 posts Fans' Favourite
    Sorry for your loss bud.

    Look after yourself 👍🏼
  • Hans_Rheinhardt1
    262 posts Sunday League Hero
    ohbuggerit wrote: »
    I am waiting to see if ea address the issue of toxic behaviour. I think they could do much more to limit it through design and features.
    Sadly I don't think they ever will. There is no recognition of the online it causes. Had they acknowledged it previously, I'm sure we woukd have seen progress towards banning it totally, but my guess is bucks over #$*% given.


  • RedArmyRay
    696 posts An Exciting Prospect
    Good luck for the future op.
  • Fifapayne
    7370 posts League Winner
    Great comments here guys.

    I know we all bicker and troll.

    But this thread is heart warming fellas.
  • GeorgeGervin
    3611 posts National Call-Up
    Fifapayne wrote: »
    Great comments here guys.

    I know we all bicker and troll.

    But this thread is heart warming fellas.

    Agreed and best wishes OP.
  • ExcellentExecution
    135 posts Has Potential To Be Special
    All the best mate! ♥️
  • Heimokuoma
    165 posts Has Potential To Be Special
    Wow! Thanks guys! I knew we as a community have the warm caring heart in our deep inside even though the game may bring some of our bad sides to be seen. You all are some good people 🤗🫡
  • Wooly1203
    3670 posts National Call-Up
    Really sorry for your loss man. I have kids myself and that kind of thing was always my worst fear.

    It sucks that people act like that online. I’ve gotten pretty good at ignoring those idiots and focusing on the positive interactions people offer instead.

    Sounds like you have a good grip on your priorities and what is important in life. Sometimes I feel like I spend too much time playing as well. Good luck in the future man! Best wishes
  • broxigaz
    3093 posts National Call-Up
    All the best man loved your fifa through pictures.
  • Bob_Bobson
    4530 posts National Call-Up
    Take care, man. Life can throw crap at people and you've experienced the worst there is. The focus on your mental well being is all that matters.
  • SJR440
    9308 posts Has That Special Something
    edited July 2022
    So sorry for your loss OP. Grief is one of the most painful parts of life so it's inspiring to see that you considered processing some of it through dedicating time to something you enjoy.

    Proud that you also didn't let any of the vile and disgusting behaviour of others on here and in-game get to you too - just know you are so strong for finding a way to get through such a traumatic experience as the loss of a child.

    Take the very best of care my friend - wishing you nothing but the best for the future.
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  • Ballerson
    1722 posts Play-Off Hero
    Heimokuoma wrote: »
    This is it. For few weeks I have had this feeling of emptiness when playing this release and realized this game doesn’t offer me the same joy and excitement I’m after.

    I have always been a gamer who plays for relief and having rough few years and chronic anxiety after our boy died during the labour this game has helped alot. The cycle of the game plus therapy and medication mean I just don’t need this anymore. I know I might get too distracted of the game and play too much but I’m certain this will be my last release atleast for few years. Aswell as Fifa gives me comfort I aknowledge the amount of time I consume for all the little details isn’t healthy.

    Fifa 22 has offered me a port to an other dimension and ways to fill my empty nights. It has also offered me lots of joy and experiences of achieving something - needless to say it’s all just digital. I have had pretty good last nine months and now I think it’s good time to let go as I have noticed I have played less and less and less. This season I have played maybe 15 games of rivals, one champs. qualif. and one champs finals.

    What I will miss: This community and the help I have had and the feeling of belonging to some group (the worldwide covid-situation have isolated almost everyone to their homes). What I won’t miss: This community in it’s all toxicity. And I don’t mean just this forum but the rotten playerbase who you sometimes face. Thanks to all of you who have offered help and taught me to be better player!

    My journey is over and I do of course also miss the development of my Ultimate team. Best (or worst) seasons I played over 90 games of rivals, reached Elite 1800-1900 when grinded and almost everytime 11 wins in champs (one time 14 and one time 9 wins). Sweated for two Icon Swaps and every night tried to make me or my team better. Got to 2,3 mil. without trading and just waiting for the next italian SBC. What’s amazing I had for almost the whole cycle some cards of Donnarumma, Zambrotta, Chiellini, Cannavaro, Spinazzola, Chiesa, Barella, Verratti, Insigne and Di Natale.

    Here’s my journey through some pictures:
    riahahqrrcl2.jpeg
    lx3mzxgkxack.jpeg
    78omgxwhm3c0.jpeg
    75i33v8o7qqe.jpeg
    8kbb8g1sx5ns.jpeg
    j34pdctb7p6l.png
    x8ze57onfxe4.jpeg
    74i6i0vdozcq.jpeg
    yt9xiqas185g.jpeg
    bzv8v5eqiaf7.jpeg

    Cheers to you all and have a good one! ✌🏻

    Very sorry for your loss and for the community or player base who treated you poorly. This forum and base is not a place or game I would recommend to grieve, but I am glad you found something in both.

    The game stats you posted was shocking — expected goals comparison unfortunately not abnormal — the tackle differential was gross — your opponent had like 75 tackles and one foul — to your 19 —. All I can do is laugh at those stats — it’s not a game I would let a child play…

    Again, sorry for your loss…
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