Isn't it time EA came out with some honest explainations for some of the gameplay issues some of us have been suffering from.
Let us know what is causing this unresponsiveness. Is it down to our internet connections? If so how about you give us the minimum specs needed to avoid this unresponsiveness that one side gets. What internet speed do i need, what ping etc. At the bare minimum you should be explaining how connection between 2 players can be effected and what we can do to minimise it.
If its not connection related and its down to game mechanics like momentum or a system that allows every one to win once in a while (regardless of ability) then tell us so we can understand how the game works. At least that would stop many of us wasting time trying to fix these issues when it is just part of the game.
A bit of honesty would be nice